A daily spiritual practice is perhaps the most important thing we can all do to maintain clarity and alignment with our spirit. So why are we so resistant to our commitment to spiritual practices? There are so many excuses that want to come in…

I don’t have time. I have more important things to do. I’m too tired. Other people need me. I have other obligations. I have to get this stuff done first, and then I’ll practice if there’s still time… Sound familiar?

Honestly, what could be more important than maintaining our alignment with spirit?

When we’re on a spiritual path, it’s so important to maintain a commitment to our practice as a way of nourishing our spirit, just as we make time to nourish our bodies through food. It takes willpower to overcome our resistance. Consistency is difficult for most of us because our ego convinces us, with any reason it can come up with, that practice isn’t important. This is because the ego is set aside during practice, and it doesn’t like this. It’s important to be aware that when your mind tries to convince you that you don’t have time to practice today, or that you’re too tired, or that there are more important things to do than maintain your connection to the divine…that the mind is simply afraid of being surrendered, of letting go of control. It’s important to see these excuses for what they are…excuses…and not buy into the convincing arguments of the ego. After all, the ego is invested in sabotaging our spiritual commitments. As we move toward spiritual awakening, the ego loses power. This is great for humanity, but not so good for our egos. [click to continue…]

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How to Manifest Anything You Want

by Debby on May 4, 2012

Today I’m headed to Dallas, Texas, to teach at the Manifestation Celebration tomorrow evening, May 5th. I’m very excited to be a part of this celebration, sharing the spirit of consciousness, creativity, and self-expression with other awakening souls!

I’ve been working with the concept of “manifesting” for a long time now. I know how amazing it feels to manifest something that my heart truly desires–the times when I seem to “get it” and the things I want flow towards me almost effortlessly.

But, I also know how frustrating it can feel to really want something, and continuously feel that that something is always just out of reach.

As fate would have it, this video of business/life coach extraordinare Marie Forleo and bestselling author Gabby Bernstein arrived in my inbox a few days ago. In it, Gabby beautifully describes manifesting as “Acquiring the experience of what it is that you want to feel, and being and living and believing in that experience, and then allowing that experience to come into form.”  [click to continue…]

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Self-Love or Ego-Love?

by Debby on April 25, 2012

We’ve all heard how important it is to love ourselves. Self-love is empowering, and the key to self-healing.

Self-love is definitely something we should “practice.” But what I’m discovering about self-love is that it’s not so much about learning to love our “self,” but rather, it’s about learning to surrender to ourselves AS love.

We are love. And to practice self-love, we just need to open ourselves to the flow of love…to offer our love freely. When we freely offer our love to all things, our love multiplies and comes back to us in the form of grace, or self-love. I see so many people trying to shortcut this flow. I’ve tried to shortcut it. We try to love ourselves with our ego, and this only cuts us off from the greater flow of divine, universal love. Ego-love also creates a sense of entitlement. “I love myself, so I deserve this…” or “I love myself, and I don’t want to do that so I shouldn’t have to…” These are examples of self-love applied to the ego. [click to continue…]

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